Hospice's Dignity and Grace

You have made one of the most difficult decision of your life by placing a loved one in their final care facility.

Now come the days of dignity and grace.

Being in hospice is part of life's last phase. However, until the last breath is drawn - life still exists.

Fill the days with laughter and love. Hold hands and tell jokes, reminisce through photos, videos and if possible favorite foods. 

Tears might threaten, but try hard to keep them at bay until you are alone. Instead, count the blessings in knowing your loved one is safely cocooned in tender care.

Partake in the hospice's programs and counseling offered to family members.  This will prepare you for your future journey when hospice is no longer required.

Find the courage to say "no" to well-meaning friends, even other relatives wanting to visit. If their presense will be overwhelming or bring negative energy to the patient - it is best they send their greetings via emails, phone calls, Facebook or a written note.

They might grumble, but when reminded the peaceful state of the patient is paramount most people will back down in their demands.

Hospice care can last for days or months.

Whatever period of time remains - may it be an enobling part of both your loved one's and your lives.

For information of hospice care - click here.